if you tell someone ‘no’ and they respond with “FINE……….” or “guess ill be all alone….” or “its okay im used to having my hopes crushed…….” or any of that guilt-inducing passive aggressive fuckery, cut them straight out of your life because you never deserve to feel bad for setting boundaries or speaking your mind.
i could listen to most irish people talking for hours on end
i mean not at the same time or anything that would be terrifying but you know
[voices of 3 million irish people]
T O P O T H E M O R N I N’ T O Y A
The Sociological Cinema
There was actually research that was done that found that women who used an “I have a boyfriend/husband” excuse to reject unwanted sexual attention and harassment by their bosses were more likely to be left alone than those who used any other excuse (including “I’m not interested”)
Because men respect another man’s property (and that’s how they see us) than a woman’s autonomy.
and then there’s the really shitty people who respond to “i have a boyfriend” (i really do) with “well leave him / he doesn’t have to know / it’s just a coffee date” like no, fff.
Those really shitty people hear “I have a boyfriend” and think “competition time!” I have never told somebody that I have a boyfriend and been left alone afterwards. The guy always immediately decides to show me how much better he is than my actual boyfriend. Spoiler alert: He never is better than my actual boyfriend.
Or even worse. When you say “I’m not interested, I have a girlfriend.” And you get the “Oh shit man that is HOT, can I watch??”
The point at which I realizes just how prevalent male privilege is was when some guy was hitting on me on Facebook (we were fourteen. Fourteen.) and I said “I have a boyfriend” and he said “Just because there’s a goalie in the net doesn’t mean you can’t score”
Who the hell is this Tinkerbell?
Last I checked; Tinkerbell was a nasty cold, mean ass bitch like this:
And what about this:
Or even this as well:
So I ask who the hell is this:
Because she sure as heck ain’t Tinkerbell.
Amen someone finally brought this out
i have a theory that after she lost her fairy friends and has to put up with peter she becomes a takes no shit bitch
oh it got sad